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Let him give you vibes like nothing you’ve felt before…

We're giving a warm welcome to Lyla ~ Lelo's newest play enhancer for couples! She's  an egg-like massager designed for motion sensitive intimate couples play. LELO Insignia’s Lyla can be used for clitoral stimulation or complete insertion while your partner controls the vibration speed and pattern from the wireless SenseMotion controller. Watch this video to see how you'll  be able to bring more fun into your...

What medical purpose do vibrators serve?

Strengthening muscles, for one thing. Women who suffer from incontinence or a prolapsed uterus can exercise their pubococcygeal muscles—not to mention have more satisfying orgasms—by doingKegels. Those muscles get an even better workout if you use weighted balls, and spring-loaded devices. While sex toys are often used recreationally, they can also improve sexual function for people with certain medical conditions. Diabetes and multiple...

How to Choose a Vibrator

There's nothing quite like the simple pleasure of a good vibrator. However, choosing the right vibrator can be anything but simple. With the multitude of sizes, shapes, colors, functions and materials available it's no surprise some women feel overwhelmed by the thought of having to select just one. Which vibrator will bring me the most pleasure? Which one is right for my lifestyle? Which one can I share with my partner? Finding the right...

Best ways to encourage a female orgasm.

What can you do to help reach full arousal and orgasm? Relax It is possible to try too hard. Focus on enjoying the process, not on whether or not you will have an orgasm. Communicate Communicate with your partner your preferences when it comes to sex. Your partner cannot read your mind. Encourage If you or your partner are doing something pleasurable, encourage your mate to continue. Enjoy Learn to enjoy and feel comfortable with your...

Great Masturbating tips for women

You will get more pleasure from your masturbation if you relax and take a good time to play with your clitoris, your genital lips, your vaginal opening, your buttocks and your anal area before you let your masturbation explode into a full orgasm.   Here are some tips of what you can do during this play.   When doing the following techniques, use a stimulating massage cream or oil like those presented above to greatly...

If you’re still not having orgasms, after trying…..and trying.

Could it be a medical problem? If you’ve tried the many types of techniques, vibrations and theories listed in books and literature and you’re still not having orgasms, it’s possible there’s a medical explanation. Ask your doctor for a pituitary function test (prolactin level) and a fasting blood sugar.  These two blood tests can reveal medical issues that can impair a woman’s ability to have an orgasm, according to sex...

Keep your Vibrators Safe from Curious Kids.

It’s inevitable that of the 65% of couples today that have a private stash of “sex-toys” in their bedroom, some have gotten into the inquisitive hands of thier innocent children.  “What’s this mommy?” Here’s one suggestion from a seasoned parent: I started with a small little decorative box from the craft store Michaels. (it blended well with the room decor) As the kids got older and more curious and my collection grew. We...

Passion & Power Documentary: All Women need to watch this Movie.

I recently purchased and watched this amazing and well put-together documentary on the heritage of woman’s awakening to sexuality and details on the invention and education of vibrators and society.  Talk about an eye opener! For a subject that far too many women are uncomfortable even mentioning, here’s an honest and very straight forward movie that women need to see to realize that we’re all so alike and our needs can be met and...

Female Orgasms: Myths vs Facts

Anorgasmia Definition: Anorgasmia is an inability to reach orgasm and is thought to occur in about 10% of women. Anorgasmia may be either primary (the woman has never been able to reach an orgasm by any means) or secondary (an orgasm was experienced at some point in the past). It may also be global (orgasm is not experienced by any means) or situational (orgasm may be experienced in certain sexual situations but not others; for example,...

Layaspot:The perfect hand-held Vibrator.

Laya Spot is one of the most popular C-spot vibrators. Just because it is perfect for the first time user those of you that are more experienced shouldn't skip over this discrete well designed toy. This battery operated, ergonomic vibrator has multi-speeds and vibration patterns. This perennial favourite is lightweight, waterproof and ideal for travel. Its design makes it perfect for introducing a partner to toys for the first...

Organic Lubricants: 5 Reasons You Should be Using Them

Start reading the labels on the personal products you use in the bedroom, you might be surprised at how many ingredients are in them that belong in the petrochemical industry. Lubes for your body shouldn't have the same ingredients as lubricant in your vehicle. Here's 5 Reasons you should start using Organic Lubricants right now: Natural ingredients in the lubricants mimic the natural mucous produced within the body. Without the use...

Hitachi Magic Wand…Wins the all time Best-Selling Award.

We've added the ever famous Hitachi Magic Wand as it continues to stay in the category of "never-failing". The plug-in vibrator from Hitachi is one of the bestselling vibrator's. With a soft, tennis-ball-sized head and pulsating vibrations, this toy is a favourite for both solo and partner play. Packs a wallop you'll appreciate - over & over again! Press: Named the "Cadillac of All Vibrators" on the History's Channel "History of Sex"...

Host a “Ladies-Night-In” Party

Hosting A Party Hosting a Violet's Closet Party is easier than ever! A night with your friends, learning about great products and sharing experiences plus you'll get the added bonus of the Hostess Credit. Women thrive on shared knowledge and a Violet's Closet party is built around this concept. Sexual Health Information. Unfortunately, most of us lack the basic knowledge of our own bodies and the knowledge about the opposite sex. Our school...

A Good Vibrator can make a Great Day 

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