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		<title>Implanting a &#8220;Sex Chip&#8221; in the brain for low libido?</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scientists out of Oxford University have developed a deep brain stimulation protocol for the orbitofrontal cortex of the brain, a small center behind the eyes which is believed to have a role in our perception of pleasure associated with food and sex. Dr. Tipu Aziz, a professor of neurosurgery at Oxford remarks, “A few years ago, a scientist implanted such a device into the brain of a woman with a low sex drive and turned her into a very sexually active woman. She didn’t like the sudden change, so the wiring in her head was removed.” The doctor further comments that a “sex chip” utilizing this technology could be available within 10 years.</p>
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<p>Deep brain stimulation is an area of ongoing research whereby electrodes are surgically inserted into areas of the brain and a pacemaker is pulsed to activate that area. Promising developments have been made for conditions such as Parkinson’s disease, Tourette’s Syndrome, phantom limb pain, or refractory major depression utilizing deep brain stimulation. In each of these conditions, deficiencies of a very small control region of the brain are linked to the associated symptoms, which is ideal for this type of modality. In the case of libido or pleasure, scientists have only recently begun to map out brain processes for controls. The orbitofrontal cortex in particular has come under significant scrutiny, as previously very little was known about its function. Dr. Morten Kringelbach, an Oxford psychiatrist, has a small body of research that is beginning to shed light on this area of the brain, and its links to our concepts of pleasure and reward.</p>
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<p>With so much attention paid to male erectile dysfunction due to Viagra and its predecessors, one would think that female sexual dysfunction would also be studied aggressively. Unfortunately, research and answers have proven difficult to obtain, as sexual arousal appears to be much more multifactoral in females than males. The deep brain stimulation studies serve to offer some insight into this complicated problem, and should trigger further investigation into neural controls for sexual response.</p>
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<p>Hopefully, the research being carried out at Oxford will help to bring some novel therapies to the millions of women who struggle daily with sexual dysfunction.</p>
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<p><strong>References</strong></p>
<p>Morten L. Kringelbach (2005). The human orbitofrontal cortex: linking reward to hedonic experience <em>Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 6</em> (9), 691-702 DOI: <a href="http://dx.doi.org/10.1038/nrn1747">10.1038/nrn1747</a></p>
<p>Kent C. Berridge, Morten L. Kringelbach (2008). Affective neuroscience of pleasure: reward in humans and animals <em>Psychopharmacology, 199</em> (3), 457-480 DOI: <a href="http://dx.doi.org/10.1007/s00213-008-1099-6">10.1007/s00213-008-1099-6</a></p>
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		<title>What is the natural purpose of the clitoris?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the female body hormone levels widely fluctuate. To prevent hormones from causing negative side effects, the female body contains a &#8221;reset-button&#8221; : the clitoris. By having a clitoral orgasm, oxytocin is released.  Here&#8217;s why this release works as a hormone reset &#8230; <a href="http://www.shopvioletscloset.com/2012/01/24/what-is-the-natural-purpose-of-the-clitoris/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">In the female body hormone levels widely fluctuate. </span><span style="font-family: Arial;">To prevent hormones from causing negative side effects, the female body contains a &#8221;reset-button&#8221; : the clitoris.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">By having a clitoral orgasm, oxytocin is released.  Here&#8217;s why this release works as a hormone reset function.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">Oxytocin is a multifunctional hormone. In pregnant women oxytocin is required for delivery contractions, and after delivery, oxytocin is essential in lactation. But also in women not pregnant or lactating, oxytocin is always essential. Like other sex-hormones (such as estrogen and progesterone) the body always composes and secretes some oxytocin, to influence different processes. Whenever the uterus contracts, like it does when you are having your period, oxytocin is secreted.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">by having a clitoral orgasm, much more oxytocin is secreted. And these higher oxytocin levels are essential to reset the body. Like you need a compass sailing at open sea ; every once and a while you have to check the compass, and adjust your course. Without orgasms, your ship may sail way off course, causing a bacterial infection, a physically caused lack of interest, obesity, nervous breakdowns, psychotic behavior or even breast cancer ;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">stress</span></strong> ; Stress increases ACTH- and prolactin release. Oxytocin de-stresses , through regulating prolactin-  and ACTH-levels.Clitoral orgasms diminish stress. Now you know why you fall asleep after great sex.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">cancer</span></strong> ; Stress increases prolactin secretion.  And excessive prolactin can enhance breast cancer , brain tumors and leukemia. Oxytocin regulates prolactin secretion. Orgasms therefore decrease cancer risk.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;">Oxytocin increases dopamine level . Dopamine is known to inhibit excessive prolactin secretion. Like stress, progesterone increases prolactin level too. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">obesity</span></strong> ; Oxytocin also regulates appetite, through receptors in the brain. Oxytocin inhibits appetite to prevent obesity.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><em><span style="font-family: Arial;">You know when you se a woman all of a sudden looking fab ? How many times have you heard this one : “Oh, I have a new boyfriend and we have lots of great sex ? But you think “Girl, you just went on a diet”. Well sorry to bust your bubble, but it’s the sex, the orgasms and the oxytocin !</span></em></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">bacteria</span></strong> ; Oxytocin is a natural antibiotic, attacking hostile bacteria, decreasing susceptibility to uterine infection <strong>(27)</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">behavior</span></strong> ; Oxytocin is anti-psychotic ; oxytocin plays an important role in the regulation of normal cognitive functions and behaviors, which are disturbed in schizophrenia. Some forms of obsessive-compulsive disorder are also related to oxytocin dysfunction. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">Oxytocin also gives you fighting spirit. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">memory</span></strong> ; Oxytocin plays a key role in meltdown of prior learning in preparation for new learning , like new books in a library have to be catalogued and shelved.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;">Orgasms keep you inquisitive and investigative ; ready and hungry for new input.</span></p>
<p>The lust for a clitoral orgasm originates from the physical necessity for &#8216;being reset hormonally&#8217;. Like the lust for consuming fruit originates from the physical necessity to obtain sufficient glucose, when glucose level is low. The better the orgasm, the more oxytocin is released. And like you need glucose in your blood to live, you need great orgasms to be in good health.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Experts estimate that an orgasm can burn between 50-100 calories. &#160; 2. More sex means living longer, says science. One doc claims it can add up to eight years to your life. &#160; 3. Sex, even as little as &#8230; <a href="http://www.shopvioletscloset.com/2012/01/12/55-health-reasons-to-have-an-orgasm-today/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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</a><span style="color: #000000;">1. Experts estimate that an orgasm can burn between 50-100 calories.</span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">2. More sex means living longer, says science. One doc claims it can add up to eight years to your life.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">3. Sex, even as little as once or twice a week, also increases immunoglobulin levels; the stuff in your blood that fights infection and disease, as much as 30 percent higher than in those who abstain.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">4. “It is just after orgasm that the intense pelvic vasocongestion resulting from sexual excitement quickly disappears.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">If orgasm is not attained, this vasodilation takes much longer to disappear, a fact that, in women, may cause painful phenomena due to the persistent engorgement of the inner genitals.”</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">5. Masturbation can burn up the calories, as well. You can lose between 100-150 calories for each act of masturbation, according to the Young People’s Reproductive and Sexual Health &amp; Rights Organization.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">6. You can raise that amount to around 300 calories, through a 5-minute vigorous masturbation session, according to Japanese scientist Dr. Shukan Tokuho.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">7. “The average lovemaking session burns between 50 and 100 calories. Having sex 3 times a week burns 7500 calories per year.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">That’s the equivalent of jogging 75 miles. The more intense the sex, the more calories are burned: up to 15,000 calories annually (at a frequency of 3 times weekly). 15,000 calories equals over 4 pounds of weight loss per year!”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">8. Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm. Consider some of the research on this important hormone:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Oxytocin increases sexual receptivity and counteracts impotence. (Pedersen, C.A., 2002), (Arletti, 1997)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Oxytocin reduces cravings for sweets. (Billings, 2006)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Oxytocin calms. A single rat injected with oxytocin has a calming effect on a cage full of anxious rats. (Agren, 2002)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Oxytocin counteracts the effects of cortisol, the stress hormone. (Legros, 2003) Less stress means increased immunity and faster recovery.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">9. Sexual activity is often encouraged to cure headaches and menstrual cramps, as the release of endorphins can increase pain tolerance by as much as 70%.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">10. During sexual stimulation, the production of the chemical phenetylamine (known to curb the appetite) increases.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">11. Serotonin levels in the brain become elevated during sexual activity and can promote a sense of well being that has a calming effect on cravings, such as those for junk food or cigarettes.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">12. Right before sexual climax, the level of DHEA in the body spikes to several times its normal level. DHEA is a natural steroid hormone known to:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Improve brain function.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Improve performance in the cardiovascular system.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Increase fat metabolism.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">• Boost the immune system, and promote healthy-looking skin.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">13. The hormone estrogen is also released when the body achieves orgasm. More estrogen means healthier cardiovascular system, lower bad cholesterol, and suppler skin.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">14. Regular sexual activity can also regulate a woman’s menstrual cycle.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">15. A psychological study done at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania showed that students who engaged in regular sexual activity had one third higher levels of immunoglobin A, an antibody that boosts the immune system and can help fight colds and flu.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Achieving orgasm on a regular basis can boost infection-fighting cells up to 20%.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">16. The deep breathing and elevated heart rate that occurs during arousal and orgasm causes more oxygen to circulate throughout the body, a process that keeps organs and tissues healthy.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">17. Orgasms improve a woman’s chances of conception because the vagina and the contracting uterus cause increased blood flow to the pelvis. This helps the sperm fertilize the egg.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">18. Tantric Therapy; Orgasms that last at least 20 minutes can alleviate clinical depression completely.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">19. Sex boosts our body’s sense of smell.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">20. After the orgasm, a rise of the hormone prolactin occurs inside your body. This chemical makes the brain’s stem cells to grow new neurons in the olfactory bulb, where smell is formed, increasing your olfactory abilities.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">21. A sex session can burn as many calories as running 15 minutes on a treadmill.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">22. After-Glow: During sex, the body perspires, which helps flush out toxins and releases skin-nourishing oils.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">23. Absorbing semen vaginally or orally is a health booster. It gives a shot of zinc, calcium, potassium, fructose, and proteins—a veritable cornucopia of vitality!</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">24. A recent study found that women who gave their men oral sex, and swallowed, had a lower risk of preeclampsia, the dangerously high blood pressure that sometimes accompanies pregnancy.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">25. High ejaculation frequency is related to decreased risk of total prostate cancer.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">26. Sex can be rejuvenating and helps wounds heal faster.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Several experiments have shown that oxytocin can help even stubborn sores, like those suffered by diabetics, to heal by regenerating certain cells.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">27. After studying 3,500 men and women, Dr. Weeks concluded that people who had one or two orgasms a week looked around</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">10 years younger than those who didn’t.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">28. Fetuses have been monitored masturbating in utero, meaning that sexual pleasure (and orgasm) is a natural and innate part of who we are and how we feel good.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Not feeling guilty about taking the time to take care of you is natural, too.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">29. Having a vaginal orgasm does more than just put a little pep in your step. It actually causes you to walk differently, with a longer stride and a greater pelvic rotation.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">30. Cervical infections can be reduced with frequent clitoral stimulation.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">31. It’s totally natural. Female porcupines have been witnessed using wooden sticks to masturbate.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">32. Performance anxiety is believed to be the most common cause of orgasm problems. 90 percent of orgasm problems appear to be psychological in nature.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">33. That warm, sexy rush you feel during foreplay is the result of blood heading straight to your vagina and clitoris.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">34. A recent small-scale study at the Netherlands’ University of Groningen found that areas involving fear and emotion are actually deactivated during orgasm.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">35. Oral sex is NOT foreplay -it’s COREPLAY as Kerner coined the term and it’s necessary.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Clitoral stimulus is the #1 path to successful orgasm.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">36. It’s been hypothesized that having an orgasm and releasing that tide of oxytocin is a woman’s subconscious way of approving of her partner as a potential dad.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">37. Evidence suggests that the more thoroughly you sexually satiate yourself—that is, the more intense or numerous your orgasms—the more acute the overall effects on you.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">38. Studies are showing that as sexual activity goes up, the risk of breast cancer goes down.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">39. “Functional MRI images show that women’s brains utilize much more oxygen during orgasm than usual, similar to the effects of exercise,” says Barry Komisaruk, PhD, coauthor of The Science of Orgasm.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“In other words, the brain is being nourished,” which helps keep your mind sharp.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">40. Not only does sexual stimulation kind of bathe you in a sexy glow — if you’re having that much sex, it’s going to be on your mind more, and that shows on your face and in your movements — but it also becomes this fabulous self-fulfilling prophecy.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">41. The mixed effort of sex and relaxation brought by orgasm is the ideal replacement for any sleeping tablet.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">42. The mind uses the orgasm to discharge the tensions out of the system and replace them with a relaxed body state.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">43. Women do not have a refractory period. They can be sexually aroused immediately after orgasm.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">44. Many women are capable of multiple orgasms. The most female orgasms recorded by doctors, William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian, were 134 within a single hour. That is a little over two orgasms per minute. Interestingly, it has also been noted that some women are capable of multiple orgasms even during such seemingly mundane activities as stroking their eyebrow, rubbing their knee, thinking (about an orgasm), or brushing their teeth. Hmmm…</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">45. People who have meaningless sex or sex with out honest feelings report less intense orgasms and more problems achieving them &#8211; this translates in to a simple message, have meaningful sex with the one you love.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">46. The famous sex researcher Dr. Alfred Kinsey once said that an orgasm “can be likened to the crescendo, climax, and sudden stillness achieved by an orchestra of human emotions &#8230; an explosion of tensions, and to sneezing”.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">47. Dr. Gert Holstege stated that the brain during an orgasm looks much like the brain of a person on heroin.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">48. One of the big shocks of the 20th century was that our nations sex symbol, Marilyn Monroe, claimed she never achieved orgasm by any of her famous lovers (John F. Kennedy, Frank Sinatra, Joe DiMaggio, etc.).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It wasn’t until shortly before her death (age 36) she told her psychiatrist, Dr. Ralph Greenson, “Bless you doctor—all the years I had never had one. What wasted years. How can I describe to you, a man, what it feels like to a woman? Think of a light switch with a rheostat control. As you begin to turn it on, the bulb begins to get bright, then brighter, and brighter and finally in a blinding flash is fully lit. It is so good…” Yeah, we know Marilyn.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">49. For most men, anytime is a good time for an orgasm, but for women, there are certain times that are better than others. It has been found the best time for her (pleasure wise), is during her menstrual period. This is unfortunately when many women (and some men) are uncomfortable with having sex.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The reason orgasms are better during this time, is the increase in blood circulation around the groin area.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">50. Even if sex lasts for 4.5 minutes (the average duration), the body burns off the same amount of calories as during 15 minutes of jogging.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">51. The twitching of the glottis and bronchi gives a powerful wholesome effect: women who scream during sex rarely suffer from lung diseases – bronchitis and pneumonia.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">52. Orgasms cause mini-cramps, thus all the congested cavities get cleaned. For example, pathogens that cause inflammation in the uterus pouch are eliminated.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">53. The stimulant phenylethylamine (PEA) is involved in orgasm, which is also present in cocoa and chocolate and elevates energy, mood and attention.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">PEA is produced in greater amounts when one is in love.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">54. The hormone released during orgasm, Oxytocin; facilitates learning. Excessive college copulation has benefits.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">55. Orgasm is the biggest non-chemical blast of dopamine available to us.</span></p>
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		<title>Medical Needs for Women to have Orgasms.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By having a clitoral orgasm, a large amount of oxytocin is released. This hormone is not at all essential to conceive, but is needed to regulate hormone levels impaired by stress and/or the menstrual cycle. Oxytocin deficiency enhances stress, obesity &#8230; <a href="http://www.shopvioletscloset.com/2011/10/03/medical-needs-for-women-to-have-orgasms/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By having a clitoral orgasm, a large amount of oxytocin is released. This hormone is not at all essential to conceive, but is needed to regulate hormone levels impaired by stress and/or the menstrual cycle. Oxytocin deficiency enhances stress, obesity and psychotic behavior, impairs cognitive functions and increases breast-cancer risk.</p>
<p>Clitoral orgasms do not serve conception, and are not obtained through sexual intercourse. Clitoral orgasms serve physical health, and pleasure, and are obtained through specific clitoric stimulus.</p>
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<p>Details:</p>
<p><strong>Clitoral Orgasm</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>The natural purpose of the clitoris:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em></em></strong>In the female body hormone levels widely fluctuate, to enable one to become pregnant.</p>
<p>To prevent hormones from causing negative side effects, the female body contains a ”reset-button” : the clitoris ;</p>
<p>By having a clitoral orgasm, a lot of  is released. <strong> </strong>Sexual arousal also increases oxytocin release a bit, but only a real orgasm really does. The better the orgasm (subjectively), the more oxytocin is secreted.</p>
<p><strong><em>And what is the purpose of this oxytocin release ?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Oxytocin &amp; Fertility</strong></p>
<p>From the male point of view, sex is equal to sexual intercourse. And from this point of view, female orgasmic oxytocin release <em>must</em> serve conception, improving sperm transport.  But the sperm itself already contains all the necessary oxytocin. <strong><br />
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<p>Though female oxytocin plays a role in the menstruation cycle , and does enhance sexual behavior, oxytocin in women is not at all essential to become pregnant. <strong></strong>Extra oxytocin in women does not enhance sperm transport, but even <em>decreases</em> pregnancy rate <strong>.</strong></p>
<p>Oxytocin is a sex hormone like the others ; they all strongly interact. Oxytocin influences LH, FSH, progesterone and estrogen levels through influencing LHRH release. <strong></strong>Estrogen increases oxytocin release. Progesterone inhibits estrogen-induced oxytocine receptor production.</p>
<p>So there is no functional connection what so ever between sexual intercourse and female orgasm. And to many women that is not a surprise, because there is no way women in general can obtain orgasm through being penetrated.</p>
<p><strong><em>But what is the physical purpose of female orgasm then ?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Reset Function</strong></p>
<p>Oxytocin is a multifunctional hormone. In pregnant women oxytocin is required for delivery contractions, and after delivery, oxytocin is essential in lactation<strong>.</strong> But also in women not pregnant or lactating, oxytocin is always essential. Like other sex-hormones (such as estrogen and progesterone) the body always composes and secretes some oxytocin, to influence different processes. Whenever the uterus contracts, like it does when you are having your period, oxytocin is secreted.</p>
<p>By having a clitoral orgasm, much more oxytocin is secreted. And these higher oxytocin levels are essential to reset the body. Like you need a compass sailing at open sea ; every once and a while you have to check the compass, and adjust your course. Without orgasms, your ship may sail way off course, causing a bacterial infection, a physically caused lack of interest, obesity, nervous breakdowns, psychotic behavior or even breast cancer ;</p>
<p>Here’s a list of symptoms that an oxytocin releases will address:</p>
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<li><strong>stress</strong> ; Stress increases ACTH- and prolactin release. Oxytocin de-stresses, through regulating prolactin and ACTH-levels.  Clitoral orgasms diminish stress. Now you know why you fall asleep after great sex.</li>
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<li><strong>cancer</strong> ; Stress increases prolactin secretion. And excessive prolactin can enhance breast cancer, brain tumors<strong> </strong>and leukemia. Oxytocin regulates prolactin secretion. Orgasms therefore decrease cancer risk.</li>
<li>Oxytocin increases dopamine level. Dopamine is known to inhibit excessive prolactin secretion. Like stress, progesterone increases prolactin level too.</li>
<li><strong>obesity</strong> ; Oxytocin also regulates appetite, through receptors in the brain. <strong> </strong>Oxytocin inhibits appetite to prevent obesity.</li>
<li><em>You know when you see a woman all of a sudden looking fab ? How many times have you heard this one : “Oh, I have a new boyfriend and we have lots of great sex ? But you think “Right, you just went on a diet”. Well sorry to bust your bubble, but it’s the sex, the orgasms and the oxytocin !</em></li>
<li><strong>bacteria</strong> ; Oxytocin is a natural antibiotic, attacking hostile bacteria, decreasing susceptibility to uterine infection.</li>
<li><strong>behavior</strong> ; Oxytocin is anti-psychotic ; oxytocin plays an important role in the regulation of normal cognitive functions and behaviors, which are disturbed in schizophrenia. <strong></strong>Some forms of obsessive-compulsive disorder are also related to oxytocin dysfunction.</li>
<li>Oxytocin also gives you fighting spirit.</li>
<li><strong>memory</strong> ; Oxytocin plays a key role in meltdown of prior learning in preparation for new learning <strong></strong>, like new books in a library have to be catalogued and shelved.</li>
<li>Orgasms keep you inquisitive and investigative ; ready and hungry for new input.</li>
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<p><strong>Perfect Orgasm</strong></p>
<p>The lust for a clitoral orgasm originates from the physical necessity for ‘being reset hormonally’. Like the lust for consuming fruit originates from the physical necessity to obtain sufficient glucose, when glucose level is low. The better the orgasm, the more oxytocin is released. And like you need glucose in your blood to live, you need great orgasms to be in good health.</p>
<p>Now where’s my new vibrator…time to schedule a more regular dates with my Mrs.  C.  This is one health plan I can stick to!</p>
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		<title>Vibrator Instructions For Women</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here's a few helpful hints for women on how to use a vibrator. <a href="http://www.shopvioletscloset.com/2011/09/24/vibrator-instructions-for-women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<address><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica;"><img src="http://www.shopvioletscloset.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/vibrator_instructions-150x150.jpg" alt="vibrator_instructions_violetscloset" width="150" height="150" />All you really need to know about using a vibrator is &#8220;Do What Feels Good&#8221;, &#8220;Keep it Clean&#8221; and if it is &#8220;Not Water-Proof&#8221; don&#8217;t put it in water. Now that you have the very simple rules &#8211; a vibrator is designed to stimulate. It does a better job of stimulating than a tongue, fingers, or any inanimate object. It is a perfect tool for masturbation for both women or men and can greatly heighten sexual intensity for couples.</span></span></address>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica;">For Women &#8211; External Vibrator Instructions</span></strong><br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica;">There is a definite difference between a vibrator induced orgasm and an orgasm produced by other means. A vibrator orgasm is much more intense and it&#8217;s not uncommon for women to have multiple orgasms while using a vibrator. </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica;">Since consistent and intense stimulation of the clitoris is normally required for a woman to climax we will start with the use of external vibrators.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Few if any vibrators come with instruction manuals. On the one hand, you might think that no manual is necessary &#8212; after all shouldn’t you know how to use a vibrator? But if you’ve never used one, how exactly are you supposed to know how? Most people do manage to stumble their way to pleasure with a vibrator, but if you’re looking for a few helpful hints here is a beginner’s guide for women on how to use a vibrator.</span></p>
<div id="htTr"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Time Required: </strong>For Your First Time, a Half Hour or More</span></div>
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<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here&#8217;s How:</span></span></h3>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Get to know your vibrator.</strong><br />
Take your vibrator out of the package and get to know how it works and what kind of batteries it takes. Play with the buttons and switches and find out how many speeds and settings it has. Wash your vibrator well before using it. If it isn’t waterproof, be careful not to get any water near the battery case. Check for sharp edges or seams (these can be easily filed down and made safe). Make sure the body of the vibrator isn’t coming apart from the battery pack and that all wires are solid and secure. If there are any flaws, return your vibrator before you use it.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Start on your own.</strong><br />
Even if you’re planning on using your vibrator with a partner, it’s a good idea to check it our by yourself first. You’ll feel less self-conscious and/or you can really concentrate on how it feels for you without being distracted (for better or worse) by a partner. Make sure you have a little time and enough privacy. If you’ve got roommates, children, thin walls, or nosy neighbors, you can always turn on some music and make use of blankets and comforters to mute the sound (you may also want to think about getting a quieter vibrator).</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Play with the lights on.</strong><br />
Not everyone will be comfortable with this one, and vision may not be a sense you rely on, but playing with a vibrator with the lights on can be very educational and useful. You can discover specific places on your body that are rich with nerve endings and ripe for stimulation. This is the kind of information you can use on yourself in the future and share with a lover. You can achieve the same effect with touch, knowing exactly where the vibrator is, but seeing what’s going on can be a benefit for some.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Turn it off before you turn it on.</strong><br />
Get comfortable with the feel of the vibrator on your body. Run the vibe along your body without even turning it on. Notice how it feels. Press it firmly against your skin and massage your muscles with it. If the vibrator is a hard material this will probably feel nice. If the vibrator is a soft rubber and doesn’t feel smooth against your skin, try the above with your clothes on. This isn’t meant to give you an orgasm, but it’s a gentle way of introducing your body to the vibrator.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Move your vibrator from the outside in.</strong><br />
Once you turn it on, start by touching the vibrator to your feet and your hands. Run it up and down your arms and legs, across your belly, your shoulders and neck, your scalp and face. Again, you can start with some clothes on if you like. Even though vibrators are used mostly around the vulva and clitoris, don’t just jump to the main event. Get a feel for the vibration all over your body and then slowly move to the more sensitive parts. You can slowly move the vibrator up your inner thigh, or in circles around your breasts and nipples.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Don’t rush: Explore every inch.</strong><br />
The great thing about vibrators is that they never get tired, and they let you explore every inch of your body for sexual pleasure. Most women use vibrators for clitoral stimulation and many women report that one side &#8212; or even one portion &#8212; of their clitoris responds to vibration more than another. Think of yourself as an explorer, and the vibrator is both your compass and your flashlight (in fact some vibrators come with flashlights). Don’t rush, leaving a vibrator in place can allow it to establish sensation connections that previously weren’t there.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Play with the speed of the vibrator.</strong><br />
Most vibrators have multiple speed settings (or at least two settings). Always start on a low setting and work your way up. If a vibrator feels too strong at first you can put a towel between you and the vibrator, or just press it lightly against your body. You may find that on some areas a lower speed is all you need, and on others stronger is better. Some vibrators have “pulsation” settings, but you can also play with turning the strength up and down in rapid succession.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Play with pressure.</strong><br />
Experiment with applying different pressure. You may enjoy a lot of deep pressure with clitoral stimulation or you may want to hold a vibrator just slightly above the body. You can press your vibrator deep into your skin and massage the muscles while also feeling the stimulation of the motor. With most battery-powered vibrators, the more pressure you apply the lower the vibration feels. Also the stronger you hold your vibrator, the more vibration gets absorbed by your hand. Experiment with everything from a feather light touch to a self-love smack down, and find what works for you.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>On point or flat out.</strong><br />
Most vibrators will have a point or an edge. Try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider area. You may find that the feel of the vibrator on your labia, or above your clitoris feels awesome. Because the clitoris extends inside the body, deep vibration in this area can feel great, and different than direct clitoral stimulation.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Using a vibrator for penetration.</strong><br />
Most women use vibrators for external stimulation, but as long as your vibrator is safe for penetration there’s no reason not to try it. A vibrator that is safe for penetration will be smooth, have no rough edges, and won’t absorb bodily fluids. In almost all cases. it’s recommended to put a condom over a vibrator if you’re using it for penetration. You should also use water based lubricant when using a vibrator for penetration. You can put some lube on the shaft of the vibrator and with your fingers put some lube on your vulva and just inside your vagina.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Exploring penetration with a vibrator.</strong><br />
Start slow with penetration and get yourself aroused by using the vibrator externally first. While far more nerve endings are outside the vagina than inside, lots of women enjoy penetration with a vibrator. Some women will use a vibrator to find and stimulate the g spot. It has also been hypothesized that nerve endings in the cervix respond to stimulation and pressure. Pressing the vibrator against the top of your vagina (such as pressing it towards your belly) may provide g spot stimulation or even indirect clitoral stimulation.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Using your vibrator with a partner.</strong><br />
You can use your vibrator with your partner in any number of ways. You can control the vibe, using it on yourself to add stimulation during sex play with a partner. You can use the vibrator on your partner (or vice versa). You can also find a vibrator that fits well between you and your partner that neither of you need to control, but can add stimulation during sex. However you want to do it, it’s a good idea for each of you to follow the above steps first, and get fully comfortable on your own before making it a threesome.</span></li>
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<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Tips:</strong></span></span></h3>
<ol>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>G spot vibrators</strong><br />
Some vibrators have a curved tip and are sold as g spot vibrators. These toys can make it easier to reach the g spot but they are no guarantee that you’ll enjoy g spot stimulation. Also, any firm vibrator can be used to stimulate the g spot.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Safety tip: vaginal or anal penetration.</strong><br />
If you want to insert a vibrator anally, only use vibrators designed for anal penetration. The toy should be smooth and seamless, and should have a flared base to prevent it from slipping all the way in.<br />
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Vibrator strength trick.</strong><br />
If you’re using a vibrator on a partner and you want to vary the strength of the vibration you can do this by grabbing the vibrator tighter and getting a larger grasp on it. When you do this your hand absorbs more of the vibration and to the person on the other end it feels like the vibration is getting a bit lower. Loosen your grip and the strength will come back.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Take your batteries out.</strong><br />
Get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time your finished using it. If you leave the batteries in, the vibrator may turn on to a very low speed (or you may leave it on low without knowing it) and this can both burn out the motor and make for some embarrassing moments when everyone at dinner is wondering where that buzzing is coming from. Also, if you leave your vibrator alone for extended periods with the batteries in, they can corrode and leak into the battery case, destroying your vibrator.</span></li>
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