Here’s some tips on finding your G-Spot. We’ve found Lelo Gigi to be the perfect shape and size for exploring. You might be surprised at what you learn!

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Women need to start thinking “sexy” thoughts. This is a learned activity for most busy, middle-aged women whose lives are filled to the brink with everything else.

By having a clitoral orgasm, a lot of oxytocin is released. Sexual arousal also increases oxytocin release a bit, but only a real orgasm really does. The better the orgasm (subjectively), the more oxytocin is secreted. Oxytocin also regulates appetite, through receptors in the brain. Oxytocin inhibits appetite to prevent obesity.

Ask your doctor for a pituitary function test (prolactin level) and a fasting blood sugar. These two blood tests can reveal medical issues that can impair a woman’s ability to have an orgasm, according to sex therapist Judith Seifer, PhD