Sexual Health

Implanting a “Sex Chip” in the brain for low libido?

Scientists out of Oxford University have developed a deep brain stimulation protocol for the orbitofrontal cortex of the brain, a small center behind the eyes which is believed to have a role in our perception of pleasure associated with food and sex. Dr. Tipu Aziz, a professor of neurosurgery at Oxford remarks, “A few years ago, a scientist implanted such a device into the brain of a woman with a low sex drive and turned her into a very...

What is the natural purpose of the clitoris?

In the female body hormone levels widely fluctuate. To prevent hormones from causing negative side effects, the female body contains a ''reset-button'' : the clitoris. By having a clitoral orgasm, oxytocin is released.  Here's why this release works as a hormone reset function. Oxytocin is a multifunctional hormone. In pregnant women oxytocin is required for delivery contractions, and after delivery, oxytocin is essential in lactation....

This is your brain on Orgasm.

You may have heard that the brain has a pleasure center that lets us know when something is enjoyable and reinforces the desire for us to perform the same pleasurable action again. This is also called the reward circuit, which includes all kinds of pleasure, from sex tolaughter to certain types of drug use. Some of the brain areas impacted by pleasure include: amygdala - regulates emotions nucleus accumbens - controls the release of...

55 Health Reasons to have an Orgasm today…

1. Experts estimate that an orgasm can burn between 50-100 calories.   2. More sex means living longer, says science. One doc claims it can add up to eight years to your life.   3. Sex, even as little as once or twice a week, also increases immunoglobulin levels; the stuff in your blood that fights infection and disease, as much as 30 percent higher than in those who abstain.   4. “It is just after orgasm that...

Why I Love LELO…

This Swedish designer brand of vibrators impressed me the moment we met (Oct. 2007).  From the sleek attractive styles, re-chargeability (Yay, no need for batteries!) and guarantee to be 100% safe(medical grade) and fully refundable - what more could you want in a vibrator??? As a product promotor and educator, easy to recommend LELO products. Why?  They stand out in an industry of cheap, novelty-based products as true products of value,...

Let him give you vibes like nothing you’ve felt before…

We're giving a warm welcome to Lyla ~ Lelo's newest play enhancer for couples! She's  an egg-like massager designed for motion sensitive intimate couples play. LELO Insignia’s Lyla can be used for clitoral stimulation or complete insertion while your partner controls the vibration speed and pattern from the wireless SenseMotion controller. Watch this video to see how you'll  be able to bring more fun into your...

Welcome Tiani! The *New* Luxurious Couples Vibrator from LELO

Tiani™ is a landmark creation for couples the world over; a luxurious addition to your love life that can be worn by women during intercourse or for an intimate hands-free experience. Featuring revolutionary SenseMotion™ technology with a wireless remote, a simple flick of the wrist will adjust vibration patterns at any time you choose. More than this, the waterproof silicone design and smooth flexible form brings absolute comfort to both...

Medical Needs for Women to have Orgasms.

By having a clitoral orgasm, a large amount of oxytocin is released. This hormone is not at all essential to conceive, but is needed to regulate hormone levels impaired by stress and/or the menstrual cycle. Oxytocin deficiency enhances stress, obesity and psychotic behavior, impairs cognitive functions and increases breast-cancer risk. Clitoral orgasms do not serve conception, and are not obtained through sexual intercourse. Clitoral orgasms...

What medical purpose do vibrators serve?

Strengthening muscles, for one thing. Women who suffer from incontinence or a prolapsed uterus can exercise their pubococcygeal muscles—not to mention have more satisfying orgasms—by doingKegels. Those muscles get an even better workout if you use weighted balls, and spring-loaded devices. While sex toys are often used recreationally, they can also improve sexual function for people with certain medical conditions. Diabetes and multiple...

Best ways to encourage a female orgasm.

What can you do to help reach full arousal and orgasm? Relax It is possible to try too hard. Focus on enjoying the process, not on whether or not you will have an orgasm. Communicate Communicate with your partner your preferences when it comes to sex. Your partner cannot read your mind. Encourage If you or your partner are doing something pleasurable, encourage your mate to continue. Enjoy Learn to enjoy and feel comfortable with your...

Where the “g” comes from in “g-spot”

In the late 1970's, sex researchers Beverly Whipple and John Perry learned of a sensitive area inside the vagina that could induce female ejaculation if stimulated. Researching further, Whipple and Perry discovered that German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, an immigrant living in New York City, had written about this area and about female ejaculation in a journal in 1950, but that this anatomical fact had mostly been forgotton during the years...

Great Masturbating tips for women

You will get more pleasure from your masturbation if you relax and take a good time to play with your clitoris, your genital lips, your vaginal opening, your buttocks and your anal area before you let your masturbation explode into a full orgasm.   Here are some tips of what you can do during this play.   When doing the following techniques, use a stimulating massage cream or oil like those presented above to greatly...

If you’re still not having orgasms, after trying…..and trying.

Could it be a medical problem? If you’ve tried the many types of techniques, vibrations and theories listed in books and literature and you’re still not having orgasms, it’s possible there’s a medical explanation. Ask your doctor for a pituitary function test (prolactin level) and a fasting blood sugar.  These two blood tests can reveal medical issues that can impair a woman’s ability to have an orgasm, according to sex...

Passion & Power Documentary: All Women need to watch this Movie.

I recently purchased and watched this amazing and well put-together documentary on the heritage of woman’s awakening to sexuality and details on the invention and education of vibrators and society.  Talk about an eye opener! For a subject that far too many women are uncomfortable even mentioning, here’s an honest and very straight forward movie that women need to see to realize that we’re all so alike and our needs can be met and...

A Good Vibrator can make a Great Day 

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